I'm actively reading a lot of motivational books and webpages on how to recover from a breakup. And one of the advice is to focus on the positives in the relationship.
So I'd try not to be emotionally biased in my findings as follows:-
- I have dated a pretty sweet girl before in my life.
- I have initiated, maintained, recovered, and suffered my first heartbreak. So now I can die contented, having done all a couple does and yet not leave any ties behind.
- I have loved a girl truly, so I know I can make a girl happy - not bad for a bookworm
- I have met the 'Fockers' before, though still not impressive presentation.
- I have broken the money tightness habit. I don't need to account for every Ringgit spent as long as I can make someone happy.
- I have go to the furthest extent to woo a girl - I have given flowers, gifts, sweet cards, thoughtful movie slides, going Singapore and Melbourne, and taking efforts to understand a girl better.
- I had my first Christmas and first overseas Valentine with the girl that I love.
- I have learnt to tolerate others.
- I have learnt to accept a person regardless of how different she is from who I am.
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